Proverbs 16 - Steps Directed

When I sat with Proverbs 16 this morning, one theme kept standing out to me.....we make our plans, but God is the one who truly establishes the outcome.

I don’t know about you, but I love to plan. I’ll map things out, line things up, and think I’ve got it all figured out. And then life reminds me....I’m not as in control as I thought. 

A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps. (v9) 

That hits different when you’re in the middle of something not going according to plan, doesn’t it?

Now, my husband loves to just wing it (which I’m okay with.....SOME of the time). But more often than not, I want to make sure we have time to accomplish all that we want to accomplish. I will admit, that when I DO slow down and let God direct the way to go (even if it’s indirectly ordered through my husband), it steadies me and brings a certain peace I wouldn’t have otherwise.

But it’s not just about planning. This chapter digs into pride too!

Pride says, “I’ve got this.” 

Pride thinks it can outrun God. But verse 18 warns us that Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall. We’ve all seen it play out......pride looks strong at first, but it always cracks under pressure. 

Humility, though, makes room for God to step in and steady us.

When a man’s ways please the Lord, 

he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him. (v7) 

I love that. It reminds me that peace doesn’t come from me trying to control people or situations......it comes from walking in a way that honors God. Somehow, He just takes care of the rest.

If I had to sum this chapter up, I would have to say -  

Make your plans, but hold them loosely. 

Stay humble, because pride is a trap. 

And aim to please God more than people....because when He’s pleased, peace follows.